Trying hard[er than we should?]

Yeah, last time I left the blog and never came back to finnish what I started. Well, it's been busy ever since, and even the moments in which I had absolutely nothing to do.. Well, I couldn't even spare those to come here and write my thoughts away. Anyway, I'm here now so let's get a move on!

I was thinking about trying hard. Trying hard, when you meet someone and you try to take things a little bit further, you know, getting to know him/her a little bit better.

And then you always come across some less-interesting characteristics of that other person.. and 90% of the time, if not 100%, we cope with it and we try our best to change them, or to ignore them and look at the bright side only. We try to make them change their way and be more.. well, be more tuned with what we need and wish for. Or we just ignore the damn flaw, or flaws (in which case you would need to be a saint to put up with, if you ask me), and we move on trying to not give it too much thought.

Why should we?

Why in hell do we cope? Do we give in? Why do we quit ourselves, we drop our habits and our way to be, in order to please and try to be accepted, and to accept? Why do we cope with other people's problems and flaws just so we can try to change them, or have someone by our side?

Why do we always consider those people who don't cope, who do walk away on others, who ignore, to be pricks and self-centered bitches?

Probably all they suffer from is having high standards! And I'm not sure that's even a bad thing.

Well, so much for my thought of the day..

Soon I'll be posting a song. I haven't posted one so far, and like everyone else who has one of these blogs, I think I'm entitled to having a cheesy song with meaninglful lyrics on my blog.

MY blog.

Yeah!